Drive Or Lead

"The call of Jesus is not about a set of rules or a program to sign up for. He says,  "Come! Rest in Me." This is a life-changing invitation, especially since He gives us a clear picture here that there is work to be done. However, as the Beloved, we've been invited to come and yield ourselves to His "yoke"—where we work from His strength, knowing He has already borne the heavy load for those He loves!" ~Christy Nockels

I recently chatted with one of our Church leaders about the difficulty in filling ministry roles. When I got home, I mentioned to my husband that their task seemed a bit like when we'd drive the cows to the barn. Trying to get people to do stuff is a chore.

Dale grew up with sheep, and I grew up on a dairy farm.  He mentioned the difference between herding sheep and  herding cattle. The comparison had never occurred to me.

During summer, my sisters and I took a stick with us to gather the cows for milking. We surrounded the herd and moved them toward each other. Then we walked behind them once they were in line. If they strayed to the right or the left, or if they stalled on the path, we'd crack them with the stick on the butt (if one could say cows actually have butts) and holler " hiyah! ".

I don’t know much about shepherding except what I’ve read or heard about Jesus leading His sheep. Dale’s sheep were in a boarded fence around the barn, so it wasn’t like biblical days where David and Moses lived in the fields among the sheep. What struck me in our conversation was when I heard in my heart: “My sheep hear my voice and follow Me.” John 10:27

Suddenly, Dale and I looked at each other and I wondered aloud. "As leaders in the American church, have we maybe gone about our mission the wrong way? Maybe we've been trying to herd cattle (prod people to move them where they should go and get them to do stuff) rather than shepherd sheep (lead people to the River to abide in Jesus)."

What Does The Word Say?

Psalm 1:1-2, 3  promises us that “fruit happens” when we are planted near the River of God’s word. “Your leaf will not wither, you will bear fruit in season. Whatever you do prospers.”

Also, in John's gospel we read Jesus's words, “Abide in Me and you WILL bear much fruit. Apart from Me, you can do no thing (of eternal value). John 15:1, 4-5

And an all-time favorite from Zechariah 4:6 ‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the Lord Almighty.

Whose Power?

I love listening to Christy Nockel’s podcast. She talks about living from a place of rest and that rest comes from living our lives from the bullseye of God’s love. What she means is the hub or center of our days should be abiding in God’s love. Rest is not laziness, mind you, but ceasing from striving, refraining from fretting, walling our hearts off from worry.


Just after our conversation, still pondering this idea, I stood at the counter chopping tomatoes and onions for tomato sauce and listened to this episode of The Glorious In The Mundane Podcast —And Christy just so happened to read a quote by Dallas Willard, from his book, Renovation of the Heart.


It stirred my heart further:

Spir­i­tu­al for­ma­tion for the Chris­t­ian basi­cal­ly refers to the Spir­it-dri­ven process of form­ing the inner world of the human self  in such a way that it becomes like the inner being of Christ him­self. In what fol­lows we must care­ful­ly exam­ine what this means for today. But we can say at the out­set that, in the degree to which spir­i­tu­al for­ma­tion in Christ is suc­cess­ful, the out­er life of the indi­vid­ual becomes a nat­ur­al expres­sion or out­flow of the char­ac­ter and teach­ings of Jesus. ~Dallas Willard

This has me processing the mission and ministry of the church and the reason positions remain vacant. At our new birth, God put His Spirit in each of us. He places us where He wants us to live, and He calls us a body. He gives us gifts in order to build one another up. (1 Corinthians 14:3-61217)


I can think of a couple reasons for the gaps, then: One, we need to pray about and rethink the vacant position, or, and maybe more likely, the people God means to fill them are not close enough to Jesus to hear His voice calling them, or maybe they hear, but don’t have the courage or conviction to step out in faith.

Don't Serve Under Compulsion

Perhaps we have all done it—said yes when we wanted to say no. The reasons we do this are because we feel obligated, or as if it is our duty to just fill gaps. More likely, it is because we are prone to people-pleasing or striving. You know that you have taken on a position that wasn’t for you if it’s entirely miserable. It overtaxes you, your heart is not in it, and you dread doing it. In that case, you should either graciously step back, or pray that Jesus will give you a heart to complete the task in His strength.


It seems, in my processing, that the most effective way to get positions filled in the church is to lead the people to intimacy with Jesus. No wonder the topic of hearing God has become increasingly important!


Hearing our King is the heart or the hub or the center of the bullseye! How can we be the beloved if we don’t spend time hearing from our Lover?

Spiritual people are not those who engage in certain spiritual practices; they are those who draw their life from a conversational relationship with God. ~Dallas Willard 

You can pick up Christy's Nockel's book, The Life You Long For , if you are interested in a deeper dive into living from the bullseye. Or go check out her podcast linked above.


And do everyone a favor, spend much time listening to Jesus! You might just be moved to step out in faith and bear much spiritual fruit!

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