How Can We Be Confident In God's Leading If We Cannot Hear His Voice?

Our enemy is insidious. One of his most sinister schemes is to incite God’s children to doubt our ability to hear God. That, or he distracts us from the place where we are quiet enough to listen.


There are many well-meaning Christians who say that God only speaks through Scripture. While I absolutely agree with sola Scriptura, I also know that the Spirit speaks to us in our hearts and thoughts, as well as through dreams and visions. In my experience, a phrase drops into my heart. Or the Holy Spirit will bring stories or experiences to mind to confirm His will. The most powerful way He guides me is through reading His word or by “a word” that crosses my path through a book I’m reading, a conversation with a friend or family member, or an article.


Certainly hearing His voice will always align with Scripture. The caution many express is due to fear that people might believe God is telling them to do sinful things. For instance, if someone says they hear God tell them to cheat on their spouse, that would be outside of God’s will as revealed in Scripture. To those who love God, it is obvious that the person who “hears” something like that gives evidence he does not love God and does not know His word at all. For those of us who desire to do God’s will and please Him—we need to be confident in our hearing.


The following quote will clarify what I mean by sola Scriptura:

“The Reformation principle of sola Scriptura has to do with the sufficiency of Scripture as our supreme authority in all spiritual matters. Sola Scriptura simply means that all truth necessary for our salvation and spiritual life is taught either explicitly or implicitly in Scripture.”
“But there are many important questions on which Scripture is silent. Sola Scriptura makes no claim to the contrary. Nor does sola Scriptura claim that everything Jesus or the Apostles ever taught is preserved in Scripture. It only means that everything necessary, everything binding on our consciences, and everything God requires of us is given to us in Scripture (2 Peter 1:3). ~John MacArthur (Article Here)

Personal Painful Accusation

Someone very important to me recently sought to cast doubt on my own confidence in hearing God. When I left our conversation, I was bewildered. I dug into scripture to find clarity. I spent time remembering my many conversations and experiences with the Lord and rested again in my confidence.


Since that day, I’ve noticed the spirit of the age (Ephesians 6:12) casting doubt in hearing God on the socials. He is even using trusted pastors.


My rebuttal to the accusation was to consider my relationship with my husband. What if Dale and I only wrote letters to one another, but never spoke in person. Or … what if I left our conversations and doubted I’d really heard what he said?

Then I dug into scripture. Clearly Jesus wants us to be confident that we can hear Him!


What Scripture Says

In John 10:3-6 and 27, Jesus said, 


To him the gatekeeper opens. The sheep hear his voiceand he calls his own sheep by name (to me, this suggests individuals) and leads them out. When he has brought out all his own, he goes before them, and the sheep follow him, for they know his voice. A stranger they will not follow, but they will flee from him, for they do not know the voice of strangers.” 


My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow meIt seems to me that Jesus leaves no doubt that we can hear His voice. 


Isn’t hearing Him a matter of walking with Him, learning how He speaks to us, having Him confirm it, and then trusting that in our deepening relationship, that we will recognize His voice crying out in the wilderness? 

Hebrews 8:11 also speaks: No longer will they teach their neighbor, or say to one another, ‘Know the Lord,’ because they will all know me , from the least of them to the greatest. 

We Can Know

KNOW (ginosko) vb.; 1. recognize, be aware (Romans 1:21) 2. learn, acquire information, implying personal means (Mark 6:38) 3. Be familiar with, learn to know, through personal experience . (Jn 17:3; 1 Jn 2:3) 4. understand, come to know, perceive (Romans 7:7) 5. Acknowledge, to indicate that one does know (1 Co 8:3) 6. have sexual intercourse (intimacy) (Mt 1:25; Lk 1:34) 7. Do secretly (Mt 6:3)

The last definition made me think of Jeremiah 33:3 Call to me and I will answer you, and will tell you great and hidden things that you have not known. 

Mark 9:7 says, Then a cloud appeared and covered them, and a voice came from the cloud: “This is my Son, whom I love. Listen to him! ” 
In Romans 14:4-5, we are called to have convictions and be clear on what they are.
Who are you to judge someone else’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls. And he will stand, for the Lord is able to make him stand. One person regards a certain day above the others, while someone else considers every day alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind
1 John 1:3 implies that we are called to testify to what we hear the Lord say, and to the ways He is touching our lives (as modeled to us by the apostles.) 
We proclaim to you what we have seen and heard, so that you also may have fellowship with us. And our fellowship is with the Father and with his Son, Jesus Christ. (1 John 1:3)
And Isaiah 43:10 “You are my witnesses,” declares the LORD, “and my servant whom I have chosen, so that you may know and believe me and understand that I am he. Before me no god was formed, nor will there be one after me. 
John 6:45 It is written in the Prophets: ‘They will all be taught by God.’ Everyone who has heard the Father and learned from him comes to me. ο»Ώ
More from Hebrews 8:10-11
For this is the covenant I will make  with the house of Israel  after those days, declares the Lord.  I will put My laws in their minds  and inscribe them on their hearts.  And I will be their God,  and they will be My people.  No longer will each one teach his neighbor or his brother,  saying, ‘Know the Lord,’  because they will all know Me,  from the least of them to the greatest. 

My Conclusion 

After this digging, I'm more convinced than ever that my Father speaks to me and I know His voice. Might I get it wrong still? Yes, but He will make good of it. His promises are true! By this time in my walk with Him, I'm pretty confident, while also being careful. 

He has given me dreams and he has given me pictures to help explain things and encourage His people. He speaks to me through promptings, through His word, through circumstances and confirmations from others, and occasionally a stark phrase or a word like “PRAY”.

The Christmas story demonstrates the way to learn to hear God. When the angels told the shepherds there was a sign; a baby was wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger, they “went and saw” and upon seeing, the “went and told what they had seen.”

This is what God wants us to do. Listen to Him, and act on what we hear. He will confirm His word to us, and then our confidence in hearing Him grows. We become acquainted with His voice much like we become acquainted with anyone’s voice. By listening, and by experiencing intimacy with Him.

So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. Hebrews 10:35


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